I don’t know what to write regarding what’s going on in my life.
The depth and breadth of my self-knowledge is not helping. My sharp insights have fucked off somewhere. I’m floating, disconnected from mindfulness, from self-awareness, from the people i share space with. I’m just existing right now, in this fog of sadness.
I’m unable to access my usual level of vocabulary. Words appear to have abandoned me. My ability to communicate about myself is lost, or maybe it left. Packed up and took off because it needed a vacation. I don’t know.
I don’t know.
I’m so dissociated right now i can barely think.
My husband took our dog to the crematory this morning. His eyes were red and full of unshed tears. I’ve only seen him cry once, and he’s only teared up a few times. Watching him be brought so close makes my own grief cut deeper. Her last week and final moments are all i can think about. No attempts at distraction have been successful for very long.
I lost a dear friend a few weeks ago. It went almost the same way. I couldn’t stop thinking about him and all of our interactions. But then our dog got sick and she was my only concern. A terrible distraction. I was by her side, barely sleeping, until we lost her. And then i tried to write.
It felt automatic and robotic. I felt no emotion coming from the words on the screen. I knew there was an emotional log jam, but i didn’t know what to do about it. I kept pushing, rearranging words, sentences, paragraphs. Putting one work-in-progress away and picking up another. Nothing. It all felt empty and meaningless.
I emote. That’s what i do. That’s my voice. A telling of brutal truths in flowery language. I’m a cheerleader in a straitjacket. My words are fire and ice, sunshine and rain.
I haven’t been able to connect.
Two days ago i got some good advice. Stop trying to write for my money-making platform. Stop trying to produce for the publications i write for. Write something that’s only for me. As soon as i took that to my keyboard, i bashed out a piece about my friend who’d died. It flowed straight from my heart and was done in short order.
I went back to my writing feeling like things were flowing better. And they are… But they still kind of aren’t.
I have relationship troubles – more than one. More than 2, in fact.
I’m facing the very real possibility that my entire life is about to step off onto another path. And while i don’t want that, it might be inevitable.
I’m standing up for myself and becoming more of who i really am, and it’s not being met with applause and congratulations, lemme tell ya.
I have a new diagnosis, and although i require further testing before i’m properly convinced, still, it’s thrown me for a loop.
Chronic illnesses; mine and others’.
I’m running on empty. Trying to function under a veil of sadness and a vague sense of panic. I’m having difficulty with this, a simple diary/update post.
I am dissociated and disconnected. Dissatisfied and disheartened.
I’ve had no anchor to keep me in one place. No person to talk me down. No star to direct my way. I decided to take control of one aspect of my life that i can control. I’m not going to name it here, but i needed something to ground me — a simple thing for me to focus and hold on to. If i can get what i’m after in this area, maybe momentum can propel me into and through some of this other crap.
I don’t know. I’m tired, i don’t have any words left.
Time for a nap.
I’ll try writing again after sleep and food.
I might try checking in here every day with random nonsense and stream-of-consciousness ramblings. Maybe it’ll help.
I’m hanging in there though, and i hope you are too.
Love and Peace,
6 thoughts on “Dear Diary: I Got Nothin’”
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So sorry to hear about your doggo. I myself can’t imagine the day my dog leaves. And it’s great that you’re writing this all down. Sure, you may feel like you have nothing, but you’ve I see a great length of words here. Thanks for sharing, and do keep sharing!
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Thank you for the encouragement. Give your doggo a scritch from me. ❤
I’m so sorry you’re going through all this. I am kinda feeling a similar way, though I don’t have the same issues. I’m sending love and mojo your way
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Thanks, AG. *skish*
I sorry that all this shit is happening to you right now. I know some of this is relationship stuff is about me. Hang in there, better days are coming. My relationship with you is irreplaceable, I am committed to do my best.